Monday, June 29, 2015

Taking a Break - A Sabbath Rest



I should feel like a kid on the first day of summer vacation. Released from the drudgery and routine of school, months of long summer days with no demands seems like a dream come true to a child—and even for most adults. For me, it’s that and also a little scary.

I love this ministry work. Most often, working in my sweet spot coaching churches and teaching
church leaders and growing an organization that wants to do that better energizes me. But Ascending Leaders’ board of directors, in their wisdom, is granting—no insisting—that I unplug from ministry for seven weeks. They understand (as I do) that taking a break from our normal activities—even pleasurable activities—is not only good, but necessary for our personal wellbeing as well as the health of the organization. 

I compare the situation to a caretaker. Imagine the spouse or child who tends to a sick mate or parent. Without respite care occasionally stepping in and giving this loving provider a break, the caretaker will wear out and be of no use to the care receiver. Ministry leaders are especially susceptible to such burnout. For that reason, I am grateful for the board’s decision to insist on this mini-sabbatical.

Sabbath, and by extension sabbatical, is a concept woven into creation. After six days of speaking the universe into being, work which God clearly enjoyed and proclaimed “good,” he rested. Perhaps there was a sense of sitting back and enjoying and appreciating the fruit of his labors. Surely, the God who never slumbers or sleeps, did not need the physical rest. 

In instituting Sabbath God established a pattern of work. A weekly Sabbath invites us to reflect on who we are, our unique contributions to the world and our Maker, to reconnect relationships and worship God together. Caught up in our workaday world, few of us take the time necessary to really reflect and ponder. 

After months of feverish activity preparing for Ascending Leaders’10th anniversary celebration and our daughter’s wedding, alongside the normal daily demands of ministry and life, I acknowledge that I need a break. But I also know it won’t be easy for me to completely unplug especially with the technology that enables us to be connected 24/7. It’s both bane and blessing, isn’t it?

Nevertheless, this week my wife and I are off on a three-week trip to the northeast, exploring historic areas of our country, even embarking on a “planes, trains, and automobiles,” segment through southeast Canada before returning to Houston at the end of July. 

In the remaining weeks of my sabbatical I’ll be reading and studying in preparation for resuming a busy fall schedule of teaching and coaching. Even in the study portion of my sabbatical, however, I must take care not to focus my efforts only on discipleship theory and examples, but even here to step back and read and ponder outside of my routine, even outside of my comfort zone. 

I covet your prayers for a pause in my ministry life that restores and renews me for even more effective service. 

Thursday, January 15, 2015

Going Back to Go Forward


We're two weeks into the new year. Does it still feel shiny and new? Or is the luster gone and life back to its usual routine?

Surfing the web recently, we came across some posts that we hope you'll find encouraging as your spiritual journey unfolds in 2015.

Jeff Strong addresses the disappointment and discouragement that we're prone to fall into after the high of the holidays. In "When Jesus Says, 'Don't Follow Me'" he observes that both the shepherds and the magi had to go back to their routine. Granted the magi's may have been more glamorous than than the shepherd's. Nevertheless, both returned to their previous lives. And though their work may not have changed, their perspective had. They returned glorifying and praising God for what they had seen. We think that's a good way to approach a new year, which may well hold some of the same old challenges and problems that last year did.

For those who feel like they have little or nothing to contribute to God's purposes, the folks at corediscipleship.com remind us to look not to our own resources, but what God is able to do through those who are willing and available. God is not looking for a degree or pedigree, only our availability.

Paul Louis Metzger reminds us that spiritual growth is characterized by mourning in "'Blessed Are Those Who Mourn'--Not Those Who Are Spiritually Comfortable." This is not exactly the feel good message you might expect to hear at the start of a new year, but perhaps with a realistic assessment of who we are, acknowledging with humility our fitful progress in our spiritual journey, we may be more attuned to God's voice as we move into the weeks and months ahead.

Our prayer for you as you move forward into 2015 is that you remain steadfast in the journey and experience God's grace-filled presence to strengthen and encourage you along the way.




Monday, December 22, 2014

Love with No Strings Attached


Is there an Elf on the Shelf at your house?

Personally, I’m glad our children were grown before this practice became so popular.

If you don’t have children or grandchildren, the “game” goes like this. Families adopt and name an elf who then has special Christmas magic that permits him to travel to and from the North Pole. Although he’s not to be touched, families—especially children—are encouraged to talk to the elf and tell him what they want for Christmas. Said elf then relays those desires to Santa and the other elves. The elf serves as Santa’s eyes, alerting him to who is “bad or good,” and delivering the appropriate gifts. 

Aside from the whole matter of what to tell your kids about Santa, Elf on the Shelf adds another level of expectations and demands to the season. He’s supposed to be moved nightly to a new location so the children are always to be on the alert for his watching eyes. Some parents relish the challenge of finding the perfect “unexpected” location for the Elf to spy on their child, but others may find the nightly duty another unnecessary to-do item on an already overcrowded list.

The bigger lie is what it tells kids (and grownups) about the real gift of Christmas. God’s perfect gift didn’t come with strings attached. In unconditional love he gave his Son to restore our relationship with him and with one another. He’s not watching to make sure we’re doing everything right. We aren’t. We can’t. But because we are his image bearers he is “not only concerned about providing a solution to our fallenness but also providing a way to restore our broken relationships.”[1]

The best gifts we can give each other are not wrapped in paper or the trappings of Christmas. They are unconditional love and acceptance.

Praying that gift for you this season.

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[1] Thriving Love, p.9.

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Spirit-induced Joy



Kay Warren, wife of the popular pastor of Saddleback Church, wrote Choose Joy Because Happiness Isn’t Enough to share her own struggle to experience joy. Even before their family’s public grief over their youngest son’s suicide related to mental illness, Warren acknowledged, “Joy does not come easily to me. I’m more of a glass-half-empty kind of gal.”[1]

Despite its cynical-sounding title, we know Warren is on to something. In Ascending Leaders’ Living Joy,[2] we note that the Bible rarely uses the words happy or happiness, but joy or rejoice appear a total of 347 times. 

Are we just quibbling over semantics or is there a difference between joy and happiness? We think so. The distinction is in the source of our feeling. The reasons for our happiness are often external circumstances. When things are going well—we and those we love are healthy, gainfully employed, well fed—we’re happy. When any of those things disappear, our happiness may, too.

In contrast, joy is not dependent on circumstances. Joy is an internal resource—a gift or fruit of the Spirit. With Kay Warren we acknowledge that joy is a choice. It doesn’t just happen. Our circumstances may not contribute to joy. In fact, for many the holidays are anything but a season of joy. They are painful reminders of family members who have died, relationships that are strained, and hard economic realities. But, “the inevitable painful times in our lives can be a source of joy because, in addition to pulling us closer to God, they build perseverance which leads to maturity and fullness of life.”[3]
 Our prayer is that you know that kind of joy not only in this season, but throughout the year and years ahead.

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[1] Kay Warren, Choose Joy Because Happiness Isn’t Enough (Grand Rapids, MI: Revell, 2012), p 19.
[2] Ascending Leaders’ Spirit Fruit collection
[3] Living Joy, p. 21.